*CHOOSING A PARTNER AND DESTINY; THE BIG MISTAKE*
By Adnan Adams Mohammed
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A CHAT WITH SISTER AISHA AND ADAMS
AISHA: Salaam alaikum brother, I heard you help Hookup people for ISLAMIC marriage
ADAMS: Walaikum Salaam, yes you are right but with the WILL of Allah
AISHA: I want an educated man because I am also educated, working and has ISLAMIC knowledge
ADAMS: But your target shouldn’t be ‘educated Muslims’
But
Islamic learned
AISHA: Both is very important in my view
ADAMS: Not not…Follow the counseling
And throw away the petty petty mistakes you ladies make in life and later shatter your life
Choosing a partner is about 
*Character and deen/religion*
And not ‘education’
You ladies are no where wiser than the Prophet S. A. W
AISHA: Very true, but education is a plus to all the things the prophet stated
ADAMS: Was there secular education during the Prophet time?
*We have feed our minds with soo many life toxic …which is affecting our true ISLAMIC life*
AISHA: Very true
I beg you let drop it OK. I know there wasn’t. lol
ADAMS: U see u a not ready to humble to learn the right
Seriously… Some of educated ladies must slow down
I have dealt with a lot of educated ladies… And you all seems to have same misconception about choosing a partner…. Which is very wrong notion…. And that mostly land this ‘career ladies’ in wrong marriage
So when I meet you… I prefer you calm down to learn and accept the right ISLAMIC teachings
AISAH: 😳😳😳😂😂😂where are we running to
ADAMS: *The Prophet Muhammad s. A. W… Emphasized on CHARACTER AND RELIGION*
*Today you will see a so called educated Muslim Lady and she thinks she control her DESTINY and Soul*
AISHA: No doubt, parents to look out for Deen and Character. Agreed
Hmmm
ADAMS: We have few educated Muslims… But with corrupt morals
*POLYGAMY*
ADAMS: I know again you will say you don’t like second or third wife
AISHA: 😂😂😂😂😂
I might agree to second but on condition that the man is taking very good care of his family and has extra to take care of me And the family we will also form
ADAMS: Wrong conditions
Example… Before, Asuma Banda was richest man in Ghana but he is not today
It is Allah who provides
Some family were poor but after the man add a wife.. They become rich
Some family were rich… But after marriage became poor
AISHA: Hmmm
ADAMS: *FAITH … TRUE FAITH IN ALLAH and not lip services…Is the key ingredient to successful marriage and not materialistic things*
AISHA: But do you agree for a man to add another wife if he can’t take care of the first family
ADAMS: It happened by the Prophet order during his time
Take care… As in what means?
AISHA: Feeding, Good shelter, Clothing, Education, And some level of comfort,
ADAMS: Mansion right? Secular education is not compulsory.
What is that comfort you are referring to?
AISHA: 😂😂😂😂🤣 My Tommy
ADAMS: U see how society has BRAINWASHED US Against our ISLAMIC teachings
AISHA: 😂😂😂😂🤣😜😜
ADAMS: And you ladies will be jumping around… I am a class lady
*You will die and become a dust again. Think more about the hereafter…. And comfort on earth…
*There is never satisfactory comfort on earth*
Illusion of satan
AISHA: Hmmm. Very true
*DESTINY*
ADAMS: *Maybe you are destined to be a fourth wife to a poor man*
That is where your happiness in marriage might be
But you see yourself as educated so you are looking for educated guy… Who will use and dump you with nice excuses
AISHA: Very true
If that’s the case, there is nothing that will change
ADAMS: Something can delay your destiny…or cut it short
*You have power of choice… Or will power*
That is why there is judgement
Allah gave us a chance to choose between bad and good…
And Allah sent the Book of Guidance to guide you on what is good….
AISHA: Yh because if it solely out of your control why should you judge
Understood
ADAMS: Life is as simple as this
But we have made it World Cup… Just killing ourselves younger
AISHA: Hmmm
No containment, feel something is missing
ADAMS: Married people still feel they lack something…. Because of competition..
Then adultery comes in
AISHA: Hmmm, may Allah save us oo
No where cool
ADAMS: Sure
*WRONG MEANING OF LOVE*
ADAMS: Then again you ladies have Deceitful and Foolishly understanding of LOVE
So ladies are always complaining of bad marriage due to wrong choice made
U ladies only deceives your own self and then cheating yourselves to useless guys instead
In the name of love
NB: Some.
.. Anyway
AISHA: Hmmm
May Allah guide us all
ADAMS: You see you are now calling for Allah…
We are really lost..
But we normally think we are the masters on earth
*We forget of our DESTINY is in the control of ALLAH..*
*Allah’s will… Is the best*
And NOT what you will or wish
AISHA: Very true
ADAMS:
*What Allaah has preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with Him cannot be known and what is not known is unlimited*
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